Okay, I pulled the 20 pin connector with the cap on it. Wasn't in too bad of shape, a little white inside and a little bit of junk in one corner but that was it, contact cleaner, brushed, fine fine sandpaper on the male prongs, a little tiny bit of dielectric grease and back together. Fired the bike up, no light, bike gets warm, glowing intermittant light is back on... Grrrrr...
Did some reading and took the kickstand switch off and cleaned it just for kicks... Still got glowing light. Not seeing the flast codes when letting bike sit on side stand running and am going to jumper the service conector to see if anything stored in ECM.
May go ahead and order a new sidestand switch as well to see if that does it or may just sodder those wires in the loom as read about.