QUOTE(Redbird @ Feb 18 2010, 02:00 PM)

Been having problems with my water softener lately. It began when I had the well pump replaced, they bypassed the softener when they fired everything back up and never turned it back "on". I didn't realize this until later,
after I had played with all the knobs and buttons trying to get it to do something, anything.
So, it now works fine and will rinse/regenerate manually no problem. But whatever settings those dials are supposed to be on are completely hosed by me dicking around with them. Any advice? House is ~3,200 s/f, 2.5 bath, family of four, if any of that matters.

No paperwork, manual, owner's guide..?
Then, I suspect you're gonna need some guidance from the unit's manufacturer or local authorized dealer. There are a number of variables involved (incoming pressure, line size, unit capacity, flow rate, etc.) that you can pretty well estimate, but knowing the exact values is a better way to go. You can probably have the local guy (authorized dealer/installer) talk you through a baseline setting over a phone... I'd sure try that first... Best of luck!